Barbara FrandsenJun 24, 2022BehaviorTrue Grit and the Value of ItTeachers and parents hear a lot about “grit” today. We worry that we may not be providing the experiences children need to develop grit....
Barbara FrandsenJun 24, 2022BehaviorDignifying Wrong AnswersWe all face occasions when we need to correct a child. How we make the correction has a powerful impact. Although this entry is written...
Barbara FrandsenJun 24, 2022BehaviorWHAT IS FAIR?Fair does not mean that every student receives the same treatment. Fair means that each student gets what that individual needs in order...
Barbara FrandsenJun 24, 2022BehaviorValue Versus FlatteryWhen my children were growing up, I believed in positive reinforcement. In fact, I used positives more than was actually good for them....
Barbara FrandsenJun 24, 2022BehaviorEncourage Effort Over OutcomeSometimes, well-intentioned teachers and parents create new problems by giving more praise and rewards than a child can accept. Gushy...
Barbara FrandsenJun 24, 2022BehaviorUsing Questions to Guide BehaviorWilliam Glasser designed reality therapy as a questioning technique to assist children in evaluating behaviors and in planning more...
Barbara FrandsenJun 20, 2022BehaviorChoices About BehaviorsIdeas in this section come from some of the nation’s most prestigious behavior management experts. You will find a collection of...
Barbara FrandsenJun 9, 2022BehaviorDon’t Let Winter Blues Keep Your Kids Down!Jenny Wise has written another important post. Winter blues can be hard on parents and kids. Please consider Jenny’s good ideas. Don’t...
Barbara FrandsenJun 4, 2022BehaviorUsing Breath to Control AngerAvoiding tantrums provides more peace and comfort than ending them. By listening to her words and watching your child’s body language,...
Barbara FrandsenJun 4, 2022BehaviorTeaching KindnessToddlers Can Consider Others I encourage parents and grandparents to begin introducing the concept of others long before a child reaches...